MEN

Caroline Bong sent me this email..I read it, and I thought of how true it is.. Girls should read this and learn from it, and guys should read this and realize that girls are not TOYS to play with.

> > > >If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
> > > > If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
> > > > Stop making excuses for a man and his behaviour. Allow your intuition or spirit to save you from heartache.
> > > > Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be.
> > > > Slower is better.
> > > > Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
> > > > If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends". A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.
> > Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
> > > > Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.
> > > > The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
> > > > Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat YOU any differently?
> > > > Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
> > > > Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you,speak up.
> > > > Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.
> > > > You cannot change a man's behaviour.Change comes from within.
> > > > Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are... even if he has more education or in a better job.
> > > > Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
> > > > Never let a man define who you are.
> > > > Never borrow someone else's man. If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
> > > > A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
> > > > All men are NOT dogs.
> > > > You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two Way street.
> > > > You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.
> > > > You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.
> > > > > > Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, And you're always readily available to him - he takes it for granted.
> > > > Never move into his mother's house. >
> > > Never co-sign for a man.
> > > > Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.
> > Keep him in your radar but get to know others.