Monday, October 27, 2008

It is up to you.

Sometimes, I really don't understand why some people can be so dense to the point of stupidity. They go about calling people deceitful, and making them out to be liars, but do not know why they were not informed of things in the first place.

Needless to say, it might be my fault for not telling the people involved about upcoming activities. However, if you know me really well, you would know that I'm very busy and might forget to inform the people involved about the upcoming activities that are organised.

At least, there are some people who text me and ask me about these upcoming activities, and this is why they are in the loop. I'm sorry if you feel that you are left out of things like this, but looking at things from my situation, I am not so free as to continually message you and letting you know that this and that activity is coming up, and would you please kindly come and help me? I'm not your secretary that is bound by duty to inform you of any activity that is coming up just so you can make time for it, and call me a deceitful person just because you were not informed.

Initially, I thought of letting things slide because I feel that it's not worth it to go about continuing to talk about things like this, but how am I supposed to do that if you continue to slander me in this way?

It is such a small issue, so why do you have to blow things way out of proportion?

If you feel that I'm some deceitful person and that I am purposely not telling you stuff just because I feel like it, then so be it. I know that I didn't intentionally not inform you, and it is up to you to chose whether or not to believe me.


Jasmine said...

I would like to put forward my point of view:

1. People should take the initiative to follow up on current events and not expect people to tell them. Apparently, these are the sort of people who get upset when they are not 'in-the-know'. They do not have other better things to do than to be 'in the know' and hurl baseless insults.

2. You are not at the other party's disposal/duty-bound (like you said) to update so and so. Unless you are the Public Relations Officer then yes, that's your duty. Apart from that, forget about it.

3. Deceitful/liar is a big word to use. Whoever accused you of that, you might wanna check how they carry themselves in the society. They are likely to fall in that category. It takes a criminal to identify another criminal (though you are by no means a criminal and a liar or variants thereof).

4. They must be really thick to have the assumption that they're important enough to expect people to update them.

5. Obviously, they're not important enough to warrant your attention.

Sekian, terima kasih.

LOLOZ -the- SIPOOTIEE said...

This kinda people are too dependent on others. Maybe coz they parents took tooo much control over their everyday life? Hmm... These kinda human always make me feel stressed and confused....