Saturday, November 07, 2009

yes or no?

I have a question.

What if you liked someone, but that someone else already has a gf/bf and definitely wouldn't like you back, will you still tell him/her?

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I have a friend who did just that. And glad to say, it didn't blow up in her face. As in, the guy still treats her as a super good friend and everything else is the same. Sometimes when she's shy to talk to him (sikit malu kan), he actually makes the effort to go up to her and try to console her, telling her that he still treats her the same, and that she doesn't have to feel shy around him.

She says that although she knows the guy will most probably not like her at all except as a close and good friend, she actually feels relief that she finally told him, and that nothing has changed. Of course, I'm not encouraging those in this situation out there to do the exact same thing. Because personally, I think the answer to the question I posed has a quite subjective answer. It varies with different people. Some people might have it backfire, and some wouldn't. It's not something that has a clear cut answer, and sometimes, some people get lucky, or not.

On another totally different topic, I was watching TV the other day, and there was an advertisement. It was by TM, and there was this little paper man working in an office, feeling sad cos there was no one in his life (i.e. a girlfriend). Then, he met a little paper girl working in the opposite office, and the advertisement shows how his colleagues helped him across to the little paper girl. It was so cute! and the music didn't hurt either. When I first heard the song, I thought it was from some famous band like AAR, but it actually turned out that it's from Bunkface, who's a Malaysian band :) so.....have a listen ^^


4 comments:

Choulyew said...

i can absolutely understand how ur fren feels. :D

Choulyew said...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z0bVy3LQ2bY you should listen to that.. it's also by bunkface.. :D sounds like aar.. hahahahha

Choulyew said...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z0bVy3LQ2bY you should listen to that.. it's also by bunkface.. :D sounds like aar.. hahahahha

W K said...

Very complicated and hanging situation ler..